I gave a pep talk today to a young man - or as he would say, ranted on about life.  I asked him what he was contributing to society and why he thought this world should support him when he was only taking and not giving anything.  Needless to say he had a confused look!  The idea was to make him take a cold hard look at himself and ask if this life, this ONE CHANCE life was going as he wanted it to.  Hmmm.  I think we do need to ask the hard questions of each other from time to time.

MARRIAGE

Today, 17 years ago, Bruce and I committed to live together as a couple.  That has meant no matter how I FEEL I will always be married to him and he to me.  It's a good feeling.  It is security and safety... I know I will have thoughts and feelings that may go against this commitment however, that is too bad because the biggest choice is remembering the promise I made on that day when all was happiness and roses.

(oh, and it's still pretty good today!)

x :)